Top 10 British etiquette tips

Top ten tips to British etiquette

This article was updated by the Great British Mag content team on 12 October 2021

Knowing how to act appropriately in social situations can be difficult at the best of times. It’s made harder still when visiting a new country like the UK which is famous for its strict British etiquette rules.

While much can be learnt from books and television, nothing helps one comprehend a culture quicker than interacting with local people and observing their customs. So, to get you started, here are a few quick tips in negotiating the minefield of British etiquette.

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1) Complaining

Brits love to complain! They will happily moan to one another about bad weather and overpriced food. They’re not, however, as accomplished at complaining when they have an actual problem with a product or receive poor service. When they do, they do it in an apologetic way. You’ll find Brits are polite even when they are actually complaining!

2) Queuing

Brits across the UK will often be seen forming neat and tidy queues. Whether at the supermarket, train station or a concert, they will be awaiting their turn at the front. The worst mistake one can commit is queue-jumping – pushing ahead in the line. This will always be met with disapproval from those who have been waiting patiently.

3) Being polite

Saying “please” and “thank you” are two important things to always remember in British etiquette. It doesn’t matter who you’re speaking to, politeness and good manners are always welcome.

4) Table manners

Table manners vary all over the world. From slurping to burping, each country has different ideas about how one should act during a meal. Although formal occasions have their own rules, you should remember to eat at a relaxed pace, put your cutlery down between bites and never talk with your mouth full.

A brief picture guide to British table etiquette.
A brief picture guide to British table etiquette.

5) Tipping

Sometimes even Brits find it difficult to know how much to tip a server in cafes and restaurants, or if they should tip anything at all. Always check your bill after your meal. If it reads “service not included” then this means that you can leave a tip for the person that served you and the amount is at your discretion. If the service was good, it is customary to add an extra ten per cent on top of the bill total. Many Brits tip taxi drivers and hairdressers too, but the exact amount is the customer’s preference.

6) Using mobile phones in public

Mobile phones might be part of daily life but it’s still important to observe some unwritten etiquette about handheld devices. Using a mobile phone at the dinner table is considered impolite, as is speaking loudly when making a call, especially on public transport.

7) Good sportsmanship

Nobody, the adage goes, likes a bad loser. Sulking, arguing or complaining if you have lost at any form of competition is considered poor manners. Whether you’ve been outdone on the sports pitch or exceeded in the classroom, congratulate your opponent with good grace, no matter how upset you feel underneath.

8) Drunkenness

Depending on the situation, consuming alcohol is often fraught with dos and don’ts. Moderation is always advisable. And if you have consumed one drink too many – try to avoid aggression, over-emotion or impoliteness. Yes, that means no crying!

9) Chivalry

Chivalry and traditional etiquette guidelines still stand. For instance, holding a door open for a lady and standing up when one enters the room for the first time are still considered good manners for the men of Britain.

10) Apologising

No guide to etiquette would be complete without mentioning the Brits’ love of apologising. Although one would expect to say sorry for stepping on a shopper’s toe or bumping into a passer-by, many will be surprised to find that when two Brits engage in a stand-off, both will offer their apologies for being in the other’s way. They don’t care who is at fault. Apologising is a default reaction to many of life’s little incidents. This is a quirk Brits are famed for!

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